Real Women.

 


      The other day I was working an event at the University and I noticed that there are a ton of beautiful women of all ages and body types wandering around everywhere.  I also noticed that a lot of these women hide behind a ton of make up and clothing that is meant to distract and change their appearance and body shape.  Call me old fashioned but I fucking love curvy women.  Here is a phrase that has always kind of bothered me, "Plus size model". Can't we just say that she is a model, we don't say anything about the ultra skinny sized 0 skeletons who never smile called models so why do we still point out the bigger ladies? Stick thin models on TV and magazines are not attractive to me if you could not tell by now. Skinny legs are gross and if I can see your ribs I just want to feed you, not fuck you.  Now I know that we all have our own perception of what is beautiful and what isn't and that's fine, however I tire of the status quo deciding what is appealing in the main stream. Give me a naturally beautiful woman with hips, and an ass any day over a skinny hungry woman.  It is sad that what is pleasing to the eye in mainstream culture is not what is pleasing to the touch in my own experiences.  Women should be soft and supple and not rock hard. Maybe it is just my warped view of the world but there is a difference between being healthy and over doing it just to be accepted, maybe I think this way because I'm fat myself and I'm okay with that. I'm not saying that every woman out there should just start packing on the pounds or that some women should give up on losing pounds that plague them.  Where lies the happy medium of health and plumpness?  I guess as individuals we have choices to make.  We can choose to stop admiring these fantasies of skinny waifs and get fucking real.  Katt Williams says that real men don't care about stretch marks, real men understand that there is only 2 ways they got there either you was small and got big or you was big and got small, "either way we fuckin' either way". I have to whole heartedly agree with him.  So ladies, do what you feel is best for you and please, please, please do not worry about looking like someone else's ideal, if you want to get skinny do it for yourself and not the opinions of others, and to those curvy ladies out there, thanks for the dirty thoughts you create in my gutter brain. Peace is a possibility not a dream.